Common relationship questions

How do I know if the guy or girl I like is gay too? How do I get to know the guy or girl I like? How do I know if someone likes me?

These questions are often asked in emails to bgiok. This section aims to help.

It's often hard to discover whether someone is gay or not, especially if they're not out (openly gay). This doesn't make the job of finding a boyfriend or girlfriend very easy, especially if you're keeping your sexuality a secret too. If you discover someone you like is gay you find yourself facing the next hurdle: whether they like you or not. Perhaps you admire someone from afar and feel shy about approaching them.


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